Below is a list of D/s activities that you may find helpful in understanding my limits.

- i answered YES or NO next to each item to indicate if i have ever DONE that activity.

- Each item indicates how i FEEL about that activity by rating it on a scale of 0 to 5 or as a NO. NO means i will NOT do that item under any circumstances. A zero indicates i have no desire to do that activity (in fact, may loath it) but am willing to consider it to please a Dominant i trust. 5 means the activity is a wild turn-on, with the other numbers indicating some level in between those two.

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Abrasion Yes 2 ~~~~~ Anal sex Yes 3
Arm & leg sleeves No 0 ~ Asphyxiation No No
Beating soft Yes 3 ~~~~~ Beating hard Yes 0
Being Blindfolded Yes 4 ~~~~ Being gagged Yes 0
Being serviced (sex) Yes 5 ~~~~ Biting Yes 2
Breast bondage Yes 1 ~~~~~ Branding No No
Boot worship No No ~~~~~~~~ Bondage - light Yes 2
Bondage - heavy Yes 0 ~~~~~~~~ Breast whipping Yes 1
Brown showers No No ~~~~~~ Sensual Caning Yes 4
Catheterization Yes No ~~~~~ Chaueffering Yes 0
Choking No No ~~~~~~~~~~~~~ Chosen food for Yes 3
Chosen clothing for Yes 3 ~~~~~ Clothespins Yes 0
Cock worship Yes 2 ~~~~~~ Collars (wearing) Yes 4
Corsets (wearing) Yes 4 ~~~~~~~ Cuffs (metal) No 0
Cutting No No ~~~~~~~~~~~~~ Dilation No No
Double penetration Yes 3 ~~~~~ Electricity No 0
Enemas Yes No ~~~~~~~ Examinations (physical) Yes 1
Exhibitionism Yes 3 ~~~~~~~ Face slapping Yes No
Fantasy rape Yes 4 ~~~~~~~~ Fantasy gang rape No No
Fisting Yes No ~~~~~~~~~~~ Forced dressing Yes 3
Following orders Yes 2 ~~~ Foot worship No 0
Forced homosexuality No No ~ Forced masturbation Yes 0
Forced nudity Yes 1 ~~~~~~~~~~~ Genital sex Yes 5
Forced servitude Yes 0 ~~~~ Full head hoods No No
Given away No No ~~~~~~~~~~ Golden showers Yes No
Hairbrushes No 0 ~~~~~~~~ Hand jobs - giving Yes 3
Gentle Hair pulling Yes 4 ~ Hand jobs - getting Yes 4
Harnessing No 0 ~~~~~~~~~~~ Head - giving Yes 4
Head - getting Yes 3 ~~~~~~~~~~ Hot waxing No 2
High heel worship NA ~~~~ Homage with tongue No 0
Housework Yes 1 ~~~~~~~~~~~ Human puppy dog No No
Humiliation in private Yes 2 ~~ Ice cubes Yes 5
Humiliation in public Yes No ~~ Injections No No
Including others Yes No (needs discussion)
Infantalism No No ~~~ Intricate rope bondage Yes 2
Interrogations No 0 ~~~~~~~ Kidnapping No 2
Kneeling Yes 1(needs discussion)
Leather restraints Yes 5
Lecturing Yes No ~~~~~~~~~~ Licking Yes 4
Massage - getting Yes 2 ~~~ Massage - giving Yes 2
Medical scenes No No ~~~~~~~~~~ Nipple weights Yes 0
Mouth bits No 0 ~~~~~~~~~~~ Nipple clamps Yes 0
Oral/anal play Yes 0 ~~~~~~ Over-the-knee spanking Yes 0
Orgasm denial Yes 3( with discussion)
Orgasm control Yes 3 ~~~~~~ Phone sex Yes 0
Piercing (temp) No No ~~~~~~~~ Piercing (perm)Yes 0 (discussion first)
Pussy whipping Yes 0 ~~~~~~ Pussy worship NA
Riding crops Yes 4 ~~~~~~~~ Religious scenes No No
Saran wrapping No 1 ~~~~~~~~~~~ Serving as a pony No No
Scratching - getting Yes 3 ~~~~ Scratching - giving Yes 3
Serving as a maid Yes 0 ~~~ Sensory deprivation Yes 0
Serving Yes 1 ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ Serving orally Yes 3
Serving as ashtray No No ~~ Serving as furniture No No
Sexual deprivation Yes 0 ~~ Shaving Yes 1
Spanking Yes 1 ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ Spreader bars Yes 1
Speculums (Anal) No No ~~~~ Speculums (vaginal) Yes No
Stocks No 0 ~~~~~~~~~~~ Straight jackets Yes 1
Strap-on-dildos No 2 ~~~~~~~~~~ Swapping No No
Strapping - full body No No ~ Suspension No (not practical)
Supplying victims No No ~~~~~~~ Suspension (inverted) No No
Swinging Yes No ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ Tape gags No No
Teasing Yes 3 ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ Tattooing No 0
Tickling Yes 2 ~~~~~~~~~~~~ Triple penetration No 1
Uniforms Yes 0 ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ Wrestling ?
Verbal humiliation Yes 2 (with discussion)
Videoed scenes No No
Voyeurism Yes 2 ~~~~~~~~~~~ Whipping Yes 2



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